Getting divorced

If you have any kids, debts, assets or if there are contested issues, then we will need to represent you throughout the process at our normal rates. We will help you decide on how to divide your assets fairly and work out what is best for your children. We will help you to minimize the cost and stress of a divorce. 

If there are no disputes between you and you have no kids, no debts and no property we offer an inexpensive option (R1500 plus VAT). For this fee we will prepare all the court forms for you and provide you with a detailed step-by-step check list as to all procedures to follow to get divorced. You will represent yourself in court. If there are no contested issues, and you want to proceed, please email  Roy Bregman to provide you with a detailed questionnaire to complete. After you pay our fee of R1500 plus VAT (R1710) we will generate all the forms that you need and the detailed check list. If you have any questions please call or email Roy.    

 

Featured Articles

Can I divorce my spouse if he or she lives overseas or has disappeared?
The fact that your spouse may live outside South Africa or has disappeared is not a problem in that the court can be approached for direction as to how the summons should be served.
Divorce
This article deals with separation, divorce and the divorce agreement (proprietary rights, maintenance, access and custody).
Failure to Pay Maintenance
What legal steps can you take if your spouse fails to pay maintenance?
Fathers fight for their rights
A SA branch of the British founded Fathers-4-Justice (F4J), a civil rights organisation campaigning for children's rights to see both parents and grandparents after a divorce, has been formed. Dr Steven Pretorius the founder of F4J in SA, said the organisation's main goal was to raise awareness of the plight of many parents – mainly fathers who had restricted or no access to their children
How divorcing couples can avoid the nightmare
The friendlier your divorce settlement, the more likely you are to have a better settlement. A long, drawn out divorce war is hardly likely to benefit anyone but a bevy of well-fed divorce lawyers.
Can a South African court divorce South Africans living permanently abroad?
I am married to a South African and want to get a divorce. We were married in South Africa about 4 years ago and have been separated for 2½ years. We now both live in New Zealand and have agreed on the terms and conditions of our divorce. Can a South African Court divorce us?
Not all dads are bad, say caped crusaders
The South African branch of Fathers4Justice, a non-profit organisation campaigning for the rights of parents to have access to their children, wants to see the practice of almost always awarding custody to women changed.
Joint v. Sole Custody
What are the rights are of a parent who has joint custody of a child as opposed to one that has sole custody?
Emigration of minors with the custodian parent
What is the legal position of a divorced parent taking a child overseas permanently?
High court beefs up maintenance court powers
The Cape High Court has given single parents seeking maintenance from their former partners a major breakthrough by ruling that maintenance courts can grant any order to ensure that maintenance orders are satisfied.
Divorce settlement agreements
The financial services industry is linked in various ways to the attorneys’ profession. This is especially apparent when attorneys drafting divorce settlement agreements are faced with various financial products like pension funds, retirement annuity funds and endowments. It is imperative that every practising attorney understands the rules of each particular product that forms part of the financial planning process.
He loves me not – and what was it worth?
Sexist and demeaning attitudes still prevail against women when redistributing assets of a failed marriage.
Maintenance order in favour of an ex-wife terminates on the death of the ex-husband
Unless the agreement of settlement concluded between divorcing parties expressly states so, a maintenance order in favour of an ex-wife terminates on the death of the ex-husband.
Court upholds Jewish Orthodox right of excommunication
A Johannesburg businessman has failed to prevent his excommunication from the Jewish Orthodox community by the Jewish ecclesiastical court – the Beth Din – because he failed to honour his child maintenance agreements.
Divorce Mediation - Your Questions Answered
Mediation involves both parties in working out arrangements for themselves and their children instead of handing over control of their affairs to lawyers or a court.
Breaking up is easy to do
Divorce can be a costly affair - emotionally and financially - but it needn't be. Through mediation, acrimony can be converted into cooperation, stalemate into resolution.
Ten Tips for Divorcing Parents
Divorce is never easy on kids, but there are many ways parents can lessen the impact of their break-up on their children:
Tips for divorcing couples
Useful tips if you are in the process of getting divorced
Children's bill of rights
Every kid has rights, particularly when mom and dad are splitting up.
Maintenance in the best interests of the child
Every child has the right to basic necessities such as food, shelter, clothing, medical care and schooling.
Divorced parent taking child overseas
A divorced parent may be refused permission to take a child overseas if it not in the best interests of the child
Victims of Sexual Offences
Victims of sexual offences often feel scared, confused, and angry. They do not know where to turn for help. This guide provides valuable information.
Domestic violence destroys our society
The Domestic Violence Act impacts positively on families who are affected by violence.
Making marriage last
Here's some good news: If you're courageous enough to pick up this booklet, you've taken the first step toward making your marriage work.
Stepping back from anger
Every year, more than 1 million American couples get divorced. For those men and women, it is often the most grueling, emotionally exhausting, and expensive experience they will ever have.
A Client Handbook
Copyright 1994 American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers
How To Survive A Straying Spouse
Few marriages can be expected to stand the course these days without the occasional sexual hiccup, and infidelity is on the increase. We have obtained advice from experts on how to survive it and how to avoid it.
Debate over 'virtual' visits
This article discusses recent developments in US law where a parent is granted "virtual visitation" - the chance to talk with a child through an internet video connection
Former husband's pension attached for maintenance
In what is seen as a landmark ruling, a mother of two has been awarded R100 000 in outstanding maintenance payments over five years from her former husband for their 10-year-old son.
Victory for equality in customary marriage judgment
The Durban High Court declared section 7(1) of the Recognition of Customary Marriages Act inconsistent with the Constitution
What is a holistic divorce?
We promote a holistic approach for those going through a divorce. We believe that a win-win approach is the only way a family can survive the process successfully.
Lawyers who heal?
Approaching litigation in a more civilized, respectful, and humane way
Compelling a child to be God-fearing
Can divorcing parents compel their young child to belong to their church and adhere to its dictates?
Wives win right to property in customary marriages
The Constitutional Court declared on 8 December 2008 that a KwaZulu-Natal woman married in customary law was entitled to property accumulated before she and her husband began divorce proceedings.
Do-It-Yourself Divorce for R1710
If there are no disputes between you and your spouse and you have no kids, no debts and no property you can do your own divorce inexpensively.
Should I Divorce?
Have you ever wondered "Should I stay married or should I divorce"? You are not alone. Troubles in a marriage easily prompt these kinds of questions. This article will help you sort out your feelings.
ConCourt ruling on divorce reporting in the press
No party or child involved in divorce cases may be identified in press reports.
Woman married under Islamic law gets maintenance
A woman married in terms of Islamic law has been granted interim maintenance for herself and her daughter pending her divorce, despite her partner claiming that no marriage existed.
Judge rules for customary wife
As the deceased had maintained contact with his customary wife, he had never intended to desert her or terminate their customary union, which rendered his civil marriage invalid.
Duty to Mediate
There is a duty on parties to a dispute to attempt to mediate the dispute and an obligation on opposing attorneys to encourage mediation, before litigation commences
Be an adult for your child's sake
There are ways to minimise the trauma a child feels when parents break up, writes Judith Ancer
Victory sets precedent for unwed fathers
In a ruling described as ‘precedent-setting’ by the University of Johannesburg's Law Clinic, the court granted full parental rights and responsibilities, and specifically the right to care, to Mr Jose Williams, the unmarried biological father of a two-year-old girl.
12 post-divorce don’ts
The things that you shouldn't do if you have recently been divorced
Annulment of a marriage
One cannot simply regard a marriage as having never validly taken place. There are some instances where grounds do in fact exist where a marriage is invalid and annulled. Otherwise, the parties must get divorced.
What is divorce?
A divorce means that a couple legally ends their marriage or union.
What is maintenance?
This article describes the duty to support someone else financially
Getting divorced
Married couples can dissolve their marriage through divorce. This ends the marriage and the divorced parties can legally marry again.
The Payment of a Divorce Benefit from a Pension
This article deals with the various time limits that are involved in regard to the request for payment, and the time that is allowed to funds within which to make the payment